Have you stopped dating because you don’t know how to show yourself authentically and fear being rejected?
Have you been dating and not connecting because you don’t know how to assess potential partners and fear making the wrong choice?
Do you feel time pressure because you want to have children at the same time you want to find your right partner, and let them take the lead?
You’re not alone.
Dating has changed. Apps are unpredictable. The number of people online is overwhelming. And despite trying to “stay true to your heart” dating might still feel risky, unattainable, or just… hard.
Here’s what I want you to know:
You’re not the problem. Your dating model might be. So many women are disillusioned by dating – not because they’re doing it wrong – but because they’re doing things in a way that doesn’t serve them.
You’ve likely followed advice that worked for someone else. Maybe it even sounded logical in theory. But if the way you date doesn’t align with your values, unique needs, or what is essential to you it won’t bring your right match. And no amount of determination will fix a dating model that isn’t designed for YOU.
That’s exactly why I created a private space for you to figure out who to date in the way you need.
Imagine how you’ll feel when you can express yourself without fearing rejection, be confident about the qualities you seek in a partner and detect who has them, stay motivated to keep dating, feel safe while meeting new people and know who to trust in every situation.
Imagine how you’ll feel when you can date with ease!
You don’t need to change yourself. You don’t need to wait until the universe drops a man at your door.
You need clarity, confidence, and an approach that feels like you.
Because not knowing how to achieve something doesn’t mean you can’t have it – it’s a sign it’s time to figure out the unique way for you to obtain it for yourself!
In just 12 weeks in your private program, you’ll learn:
- The reason you’re still dating
- The essential qualities a man needs to be a serious contender
- How to communicate who you are and who you seek
- How to lose the fear of being rejected
- How to feel confident, online or in person
- Who to meet in person
- Ways to be safe, online and in person
- How to create connections that lead to more dates
- Real red flags and deal breakers
- When to stay and when to go
- How to know who to trust
- How to Have Fun Dating
We’ll meet one-to-one, weekly for 12 weeks, via Zoom, and you’ll have email support in-between.
I came to Lena because, although I wanted a partner and wanted to start dating again, the entire process overwhelmed me. The very idea of sifting through an ocean of possibilities made me feel tired and stressed-out, especially since I also have a very demanding job. Now, I am able to follow a clear ‘roadmap’ for dating.
Before working with Lena, I knew I was unsure about what to look for in a partner and what I wanted out of a marriage and Lena helped me clarify what I wanted in a partner and in a marriage. Today I feel clear on my core values for my life and the essential qualities I am looking for in a man.
I had also only had a few long-term relationships, and Lena’s guidance on what to do and say on dates built my confidence. After working with Lena, I feel confident that I can present myself in a way that truly represents the real me – both in person and online. I can more easily discern whether or not a man is a good fit for me. I can better communicate my needs without rejecting or challenging my dates.
