Funny thing about the way I used to be … I would focus all my attention on the man of the moment; what he thought, how he felt, the way he ought to be acting to make me feel better (good luck with that) and then I’d complain, “I lost myself in this relationship.” And then I’d stop dating.
Here’s what I’ve learned after years of wondering how other women kept creating the relationship I wanted. It’s not about the men. It’s not true that all men are one way and no man is any way – and you don’t need a different app. You have to start with yourself. Your values, your qualities, your quirks and your wants, needs and givens. Your relationship with you is your strongest foundation.
This is the first step in the process I take my clients through in order for them to create the specific, romantic result they each desire. And this foundation is the first layer upon which a quake-resistant relationship is made.
When you know who you are and what you want you will find the partner with whom you can share unbelievable joy!
So, please don’t leave yourself sitting at home on Saturday night thinking about what he’s thinking, feeling or how he’s acting – especially if you’re on a date! You need to show up, engage, bring yourself and be you to the fullest! I promise you’ll never lose yourself again.
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