All of it.
All of you.
How? How do you start to embrace the one thing – your entire self – made up of so many seemingly disparate things – your qualities – that you’ve habitually undervalued, insulted, complained and joked about as long as you can remember?
You do it the way you do anything else that’s brand-new – one step at a time.
One step might be to try on a new thought. Consider that with 7 billion people in the world it’s entirely possible that there’s one person who will love the very thing you dislike so intensely. Why don’t you give them a chance to do that?
Do you seek an enriched romantic relationship? Or do you just wish dating didn’t have to feel so hard? Whichever version of human connection you choose, the first steps in the process are:
- Know your value and your values.
- Do your own qualities inventory. Just one inclusive list
- Decide what kind of lifestyle will best suit you.
Now do the math – add up your values, qualities and desired lifestyle and you’ll determine the essential qualities you’re looking for in a partner.
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