Don’t Be Afraid, Be Curious! If You’re Afraid to Look at It, You Can’t Ever Change It!


We are thiiiiiis close to a Brand New Year!

I’ve been taking an inventory, and I want to suggest that you do the same.

But, here’s the thing – you need to do it exactly the way I tell you. Deal? Deal.

Okay, let’s begin:

  • What did you do last year that resulted in the outcome you desired?
  • What did you do last year that you will keep doing until you create the outcome you desire?

That’s it. That’s the whole inventory for now. You know what you did that got you what you want and you know what you did that you will figure out how to do differently.

Oh, I’m sorry, were you thinking I’d leave space in here for you to beat up on yourself?

In this post what you’ll find is the thing you need to move forward.


As a Life Coach I work with you to guide you forward, help you feel stronger, play bigger, shine brighter, achieve past your wildest hopes and expectations and achieve your desires.

You know why your list of ‘wants’ is so looooong and your list of ‘haves’ is so short?

Because rather than learning from the experiences that haven’t panned out for you in the past, you’ve made them mean something about your ability to create them in the future. Your future.

When you fail to achieve a goal and you judge yourself, say mean things to yourself, beat up on yourself, you lose the lesson from the fail. Inside that fail is a stepping-stone to the win – but you’ll never be able to access it if you don’t look at it and accept it for what it is.

If the thing you’ve always wanted and not quite believed you could achieve is to be in an enriched, romantic relationship with a quality partner you’re going to have to start dating in the smartest way possible, not continuing in the way it hasn’t been working for you. I can help.

Your future is closer than you realize, and you’re going to be grateful you started today.