Do You Feel Like Something Keeps Happening That Keeps You From Finding the Love You Desire? Do You Feel Like Something Keeps Happening That Keeps You From Finding the Love You Desire? Do You Feel Like Something Keeps Happening That Keeps You From Finding the Love You Desire?
Patterns, we all have them. And if they’re patterns that work for you, great! But…
You are a very aware woman. You notice everything that happens around you; you see clearly all of the things that happen in the world; and they keep happening over and over and over again. These things happen to you and you know you can’t change them, right? It’s all the other people doing those things that will have to do the changing.
It makes so much sense, doesn’t it? If something is happening to you, if something is coming from outside of you, how can you possibly have any control over it? That’s why it’s so frustrating, why you feel so hopeless about ever finding love, because your dating patterns are totally outside of your control!
You only meet men who are unable to commit. Every guy you find attractive has serious financial woes. You certainly can’t control that every man you date is looking for a younger woman, can you?
You have a sinking suspicion that it might not be all about the men.
What if your dating pattern has more to do with you than with random chance or an entire world full of men? I know you might think I’m totally off base to suggest that, but hear me out.
I spent many years of my life repeating the same patterns in my dating. The main one was, I would be crazy about men who weren’t crazy about me. We’d go out a few times and then they’d say they didn’t want a long-term relationship. Or we’d go out for months and then they’d say they didn’t want to be exclusive, and I called them commitment-phobes. The funny thing was, each and every one of those commitment-phobes wound up getting married. Usually to the woman he met right after me!
When I thought about the pattern playing out in my life how could I keep up my story about it being the men’s fault when they acted totally different with other women?
I finally realized I couldn’t. And by finally I mean it took me yeeeeeears! One day I had a heart-to-heart talk with myself. It wasn’t easy, as a matter of fact it was really uncomfortable. But I knew that if my life was ever going to be different something was going to have to change for me. For me, not to me.
What if, rather than things simply happening outside and around you, things keep happening because of something that is totally within your own control? That’s the most amazing good news!
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Let’s talk about fishing.
You probably believe that your experience of life is outside of your control. You might also believe that your thoughts about things come about after they’ve already happened. For example, if you had what you consider a ‘bad’ date with a man and he talked about fishing all night, you might think it was the fact that he talked about fishing that made it bad. You might even decide that you were so bored that you’ll never go out with another man who likes to fish.
Considering the number of men online who talk about fishing, I think you’re narrowing the pool way too much – just sayin’!
You don’t think that he talked way too much about fishing because it was a bad date. It was a bad date because while he was talking you were thinking, fishing is boring, he’s boring, I’m bored – and you labeled it bad. And now you think you have to avoid men who fish, when in reality you have to change the way you think about them.
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Even when the world shuts down your desires don’t.
Yes, even in the midst of worldwide uncertainty. Not only now, especially now. Every woman I know is taking stock of her life in this moment and saying, if not now when?
It’s time for you to put yourself first. You are a woman who has great dreams, hopes and desires and I am exactly the right person to work alongside you to help you achieve every single one of them!
This is it! This is so exciting because it’s about you and for you right now! If you want your life to change you need to be willing to take one small step toward changing your life.
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