You’re doing too much.
Are you someone who is on the go all the time? Do you pride yourself on always being in action, always doing, always producing? Have you ever given yourself the gift of taking a pause and simply thinking your thoughts and feeling your feelings?
If you haven’t, you’re missing out on one of the joys of romantic relationships – reveling in the feelings of love! Take a moment now and ask yourself why you want to be in a relationship in the first place. It’s probably because of the way you think you’ll feel when you’re in it!
You’re holding yourself back.
Sometimes I’ll be in the middle of a conversation with someone and realize I’m not fully participating, not being me in my most authentic self. I’m not laughing, I’m not teasing, I’m not telling my interminably long stories… ???? Not only am I not fully shining my light, I’m actively dimming it. I’ve caught myself doing this with women and with men as well as in groups. I think it’s pretty common with women who, at one time or another, have been told that we are “too much.”
If you don’t show people who you are how will the high quality man who’s looking for you and only you ever find you? Think of yourself as a lighthouse – its job is to be sure that every ship in the water knows where the coast is. It does this by beaming its light far and wide, at full capacity. It doesn’t just stand there in the dark and hope ships will stay away. Conversely you can’t simply hope that your right match will find you, you have to create the outcome you ultimately want.
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You don’t really want to be in a relationship.
Wow, did you think I was going to say that? Be honest with yourself. Think about all the times you’ve said you’d write a profile and you didn’t. Think back to all the conversations with men that left you questioning if you really want to be with someone – do you? Think about all the times your friends told you that you sabotaged yourself in the pursuit of your “goal.” Maybe you’re not just dimming your light out of fear of being too much, maybe you aren’t really interested in a relationship. But, is that true or is it a thought you’ve been thinking unconsciously to cover for your lack of moving forward?
The only way you’ll know for sure is to dig in and do the work to uncover the thoughts you’re having, because it’s those thoughts that are making you feel the feelings that are fueling your actions – and it’s your actions in the world that are creating the life you are living!
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I promise you this.
If you really want to feel cherished, adored, respected, desired, admired and loved – it’s yours for the taking! You can have the enriched romantic relationship you crave, and it will be unlike any other you’ve ever experienced because you will finally know what every woman who is blissfully happy knows! You simply have to do this: