I used to be so alone I might as well have been in quarantine.
There was a time in my life that I didn’t go out a lot. I didn’t have a lot of friends with whom to go out socially and I didn’t get asked out on dates.
I looked around me and saw so many other women my age who were either in long-term relationships or went from one to another without a lapse in between. Some were thinner, some were not, some were prettier, some were not – but here’s the thing. I always thought they were thinner. I always thought they were prettier. And so I went on a million diets and bought a lot of makeup.
And even when I was faced with the knowledge that it wasn’t true that they were thinner or prettier, or that it even mattered, I couldn’t quite figure out the problem. I just always went back to the same reason. I was convinced there must be something wrong with me.
As long as I can remember, no matter what question I asked myself about why something wasn’t happening for me, the only answer was – there’s something wrong with me.
Does that sound familiar?
Do you want to feel loved?
Things started to change for me the day I woke up and realized that I was bored to tears with my life, and I wasn’t going to get another one.There was something standing in the way of me and me in a fulfilling relationship with a quality man and if I didn’t figure out what it was so I could fix it I might as well throw in the towel right then and there.
I had to stop a) thinking there was a problem inside me and b) thinking the solution would come from someplace else (like a diet or makeup). That doesn’t ever work. The answer is always within. You always know what you need to know about yourself, you just haven’t dug into that part of you. You simply need to learn how to access your knowledge and put it into practice.
The other thing that doesn’t work is to believe you are a problem. The reason I was able to create a massive change in my life is that in addition to being cataclysmically bored, I got tired of believing that there was something inherently wrong with me. There wasn’t ever, and there isn’t anything wrong with you, either, the problem is in the way you’ve been trained to think about yourself. It wasn’t true about me then, and it isn’t true about you now. There’s no upside to continuing to think it, it’s only making you feel bad about yourself.
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Imagine how you will feel when you have more love.
What do you see in your wildest relationship dreams? See yourself with your partner talking and walking, whispering and laughing over your little secrets. You will feel cherished. You will feel adored. You will feel understood and appreciated and loved beyond measure! All of this and more is available to you. Truly.
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I promise you this.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. And yes, you can have the romantic relationship you want with the high-quality man you seek. And remember, the one you seek is seeking you.
Are you willing to take one small step to propel yourself into the loving partnership you desire?