When it Comes to Quality Relationships, Feel it First

How do you think you’ll feel then?

Then, when? When you’re married. When you’re divorced. When you’ve lost the weight. When you’ve gained the muscle. When your kids leave home. When your kids move back in. When you’re sitting on top of your own business empire… whatever it is that you desire, you desire it for a reason. 

The reason you want to have something, or to do something, or to be with someone, it’s because you think you’ll feel good then. You think you’ll feel happy, in control, worthy, perhaps you even believe that when you have the thing you’ll feel … like everybody else.

What if you don’t?

We’ve all been taught that we ought to set goals and achieve them not only because it gives us something to strive toward as a way to grow; also because we will feel so great when we have the thing! But, what if that’s not really so? What if we can feel the way we want to feel with the thing or not?

Have you ever met someone who has, seemingly, all the things anyone could ever want and isn’t happy? 

Have you ever met someone who has very little and is filled with joy?

How is that possible? How is it possible that someone who might have a lot of money, a thriving business, a loving spouse and family isn’t happy? Aren’t you absolutely convinced that if you had any one of those things, let alone all of them, you’d be ecstatic?

How is it possible that someone who has very little, even less than you, can feel such joy? Because you’ve got some things but not the right things, and you’re not very happy.

It’s all available to you now!

Right now, at this very moment, do you feel happy? Do you feel good? Would you say you actually feel bad? The emotions you want to feel – joy, love, completeness, safe, certain, energized, light, just plain happy – are amazing! What are you waiting for? Wouldn’t you rather feel all of those things now? I know I would!

No matter what your circumstance is, the way you feel is coming directly from the way you think. We know that’s true because you’ve met people like the ones above who feel emotions that are counterintuitive to what you believe to be true.

What do I do now?

I hate to be the one to break it to you, but…

You’ve been taught it all backwards. Having the thing won’t bring you the feeling, you must first feel the feelings to power your actions to achieve your goal. Please don’t feel bad about this, though, because the people who taught you didn’t know any better, that’s what they were taught themselves.

You can change the way you feel right now, you don’t have to wait for some special day in the future … a day that might never come. And I am here to help.

What if you never achieve your goal? Does that mean you never get to feel those amazing emotions?

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Yes, you can have a fulfilling relationship with a quality man.

If you want to be in a relationship so that you can feel fulfilled, if you want to be with a quality man because that will make you feel high quality, if you want anything to do with a relationship and they haven’t been working out for you, please consider this – not only are you able to have all the emotions now, you have to have them all now. You have to go out in the world feeling the way you want to feel in order to match with the man who is looking for you!

And I can help.

Yes, especially now, you can have the enriched romantic relationship you desire!

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