Is it possible for a single woman over 50 to have a fulfilling relationship with a quality man? Yes. And the way you create it starts with your own thoughts. You can think your way to a fulfilling relationship with a quality man!
Last week I traveled for a business workshop that had been scheduled for many months. The week before some attendees asked if it was going to go forward, and shared their concerns about flying during this time of uncertainty. On my Facebook feed I saw friends voicing their own hesitations about traveling and what caught my attention is this: The concern for every one of them was that they might wind up being quarantined. Think about that – not one person I heard from personally was scared of becoming sick, all of them were scared of the possibility of being forced to stay home. And there are many, many more people around the globe voicing the same concern. Why?
Is it possible that unconsciously we are scared to spend too much time “at home” in our own thoughts? Let’s start to look at yours and see how you can learn to embrace them.
Start With Your Own Thoughts
The truth is, every result you’ve created in your life up until now has started with your thought about it. Think about that – what you think is creating your results. Whether it’s things you want and don’t have, or things you seem to keep getting when you don’t want them at all, it starts with your thought about them.
Actually, when it comes to dating your results might be starting with other women’s thoughts about it. You’ve probably heard other women say, “Dating is hard” or “there are no good men out there” or “men my age all want younger women.,” and what do you think when you hear those things?
If you agree with them then their thoughts become yours, and your results will be very similar to theirs. And even if you don’t actively agree with them, you may start thinking about their statements, turning them over in your mind, wondering if it’s possible that they’re correct … and pretty soon your mind is filled with these thoughts, and you are feeling feelings that these thoughts create – feelings like doubt, fear and apprehension.
To be fair, you may be having thoughts that are all your own that are creating results you’d like to change. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it possible for a single woman over 50 to have a fulfilling relationship with a quality man?,” this too is creating your current results.
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You Can Think Your Way to a Fulfilling Relationship With a Quality Man!
We’ve all been taught that something happens, we have a feeling about it, we react and then we think a lot of thoughts about it afterwards. You may think it looks like this:
A man breaks a date, you feel angry, you promise yourself that in the future you’ll be more careful of who you trust. Then going forward you are very selective about who you decide to make a date with. As a result, you hardly go on any dates, and you don’t really enjoy yourself when you do because you keep expecting him to do something else that will make you angry. And you think it’s because a man broke a date with you.
In actuality, there is a circumstance which is neutral, you have a thought about it, that thought creates a feeling and from that feeling you take actions which create your result. It really looks like this:
A man breaks a date. You have a thought about that, possibly, “Men always break dates with me.” You feel angry because of this thought. In your anger you decide to protect yourself in the future, so you really grill the men you meet, you question whether they will really do what they say they will, you expect them to break your dates and ultimately you agree to very few dates.
The result is, you go on very few dates and you don’t really enjoy yourself when you do. It’s because you started with the thought, “Men always break dates with me.”
Yes, You Can Have a Fulfilling Relationship With a Quality Man!
This is the way you’ve created your current results and if you’d like to create different results, please click on https://lenaehrenberg.com/contact/ to schedule a free, 20-minute coaching session.
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