Think First, Then Feel

“The grass isn’t greener on the other side. Actually, the grass is greener where you water it.”     – Bryony Gordon

Do you think there’s a “there” somewhere outside of where you are now, and that when you get “there” you’ll suddenly be happy?

I’m sorry to be the one to break it to you, but … there’s no there there.

The only place there is is here. Now.

If you’re not happy right here and right now, you won’t be happy at some other time when you have some other thing.

Happiness is a feeling. Your feelings don’t come from what you have or do they come from what you think. The only way you’re going to feel happy is if you think thoughts that make you feel … happy!

In other words, happiness comes from thoughts not things.

As a matter of fact, one of the main reasons you’re not in a relationship is that you’ve been waiting to “get the guy” in order to feel happy.

You’re trying to attract a man while feeling unhappy because you don’t have a man. You’ll have to trust me on this; unhappiness is not high on the list of qualities men look for in the opposite sex. They may not notice your haircut but they definitely will notice when you’re unhappy.What if there’s a way for you to feel happy any time, any place, in any circumstance? The great news is, those thoughts that have the power to make you feel happy are available to you right here right now!

When I work with a new client I ask her to make a list. The type of list varies based on what it is that she wants to ultimately accomplish, and I suggest that if you want to feel happy you sit down and make a list of all the reasons you have to feel happy right now.

Not when you have a boyfriend or a husband. Not in 6 months or a year. Not when you have a better job or have lost 5 pounds or more – right here, right now, as you are.

When you start that list you’ll see that reasons to be happy are like that potato chip advert – bet you can’t have just one!

When you’re ready to really, really have the thing you really, really want and you’re ready to get help to achieve it at last, I’m only a click away!

If these ideas resonate with you and you’re ready to change your life contact me at and we can schedule a free, 20 minute phone call.

Right now, take a moment and affirm for yourself:

Happiness is available to me right here and right now and I’m all in!