I love to sit on my porch and watch the birds at the feeders. The hummingbirds are usually quite territorial; they arrive in twos or threes, zooming around, chirping and chasing each other to get out of the way – I’d wondered why there are 5 openings on the feeder when I’d only ever seen one bird at a time drinking the sweet water.
One sunny afternoon I was sitting with a dear friend, remembering another dear friend who had recently passed away and I heard the buzzy racket of the hummingbirds. I looked up and much to my surprise two were drinking side by side! Two hummingbirds at once! Then another joined them, then another. For almost a minute there were four hummingbirds side by side by side by side drinking in peaceful harmony.
On another day I noticed a mourning dove on the roof. She hopped off and was heading straight down. Only after she’d been in free-fall for a long moment did she flutter her wings and fly.
Do you decide ahead of time that something can’t possibly be different than it ever was before? Do you believe that since you’ve never had the kind of relationship you want it means you never will?
Those hummingbirds were willing to have a different experience of their relationships. Are you?
Do you believe that you have to know exactly each step to take, that you have to have every move worked out ahead of time to lead to your goal before you can start?
That dove was willing to step out into the air and catch a current on which she could soar. All she had to know ahead of time was that she could fly.
And so can you.
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What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!
Right now, take a moment and affirm for yourself:
I see perfect models all around me, I take lessons from them, and I soar!