So, we’re 7 weeks into the New Year and … is it still feeling new to you?
How are you doing with the goals you set for yourself? Are you moving forward, reaching higher, stretching farther?
What small steps have you achieved on the way to your Big Goal? Have you stopped to smell those roses? Celebration fosters a sense of accomplishment. Not celebrating, not even acknowledging, having a “so what, I’m not done yet, that doesn’t count, keep moving” attitude fosters the sense that you’re not getting anything done. And over time you start to see yourself as someone who doesn’t get anything done. Then that’s the story you tell yourself and … how will you get your goal accomplished if you believe you’re someone who doesn’t get anything done?
See how that works? You’re not not reaching your goal because you’re unable to you’re not reaching your goal because you’re telling yourself you’re unable to. Because you’re someone who doesn’t get anything done. Because you refuse to acknowledge all that you get done.
Oooooh, sneaky! You mean it’s my thinking again?
Listen, Smart Girl, you and I have been together long enough for you to know that I don’t blow smoke and I don’t pat heads. I don’t tell you things in the hope that it will make you feel better.
YOU are in total control of getting everything you want to have in your life.
You do get things done. Every. Single. Day. Important things. Things that will lead to the life you really, really want. So stop telling yourself you don’t.
And this way you get to keep celebrating New Year’s Eve All Year Long!
If not for yourself, then do it for me. C’mon, when was the last time I asked you for anything? 😉
I know you can do it! I also know you will feel so much better on the other side! And if you need help, I’m only a click away.
Do you desire more love in your life? You can have more love!
Do you want to have more fun dating? You can have more fun!
Don’t know where to start or how to get to the next rung of the relationship ladder? I would love to help! Please contact me at email@example.com and we can schedule a free, 20 minute phone call so that you can tell me what you believe is holding you back and I can offer you at least one, specific, action you can take that will change your results.
What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!
Right now, take a moment and affirm for yourself:
All my accomplishments are my steppingstones and I celebrate each step!