What has radically changed your life?
I bet you’re trying to think of something BIG that has happened to you, right?
We’re taught to believe that there are these huge events that will happen and that everything will change in an instant. Who taught us that? It can’t be the people who raised us, because they were taught the same thing and they already know it’s not true.
The truth is, it’s small, sometimes tiny, things; decisions, actions that really bring about change.
And each of those small changes begins with a shift in thought. But, OMGoodness, that’s what feels cataclysmic!
Changing my thoughts – can I do that? Yes. Yes you can. I mean, what I think is the truth, isn’t it? No. No it’s not. It’s not the truth it’s only become your truth by repetition. You already know my only New Year’s Resolution – to make different mistakes than I made last year. No repetition.
If I had to identify the one thing that has radically changed my life, changed my results, changed my day-to-day experience, it is that I am now willing to examine my thoughts, question my auto-responses, change my mind about … anything. Everything.
Smart Girl, I know you want your life to be different. But that life that you are holding out there away from you waiting for it to suddenly be different is actually made up of all the thoughts you have inside of you. It’s your life. It won’t change unless you do.
Do you want to spend another year alone viewing other women’s loving relationships from the outside?
Or would you rather spend this year together enjoying your own loving relationship from the inside?
I know you can do it! I also know you will feel so much better on the other side! And if you need help, I’m only a click away.
Do you desire more love in your life? You can have more love!
Do you want to have more fun dating? You can have more fun!
Don’t know where to start or how to get to the next rung of the relationship ladder? I would love to help! Please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we can schedule a free, 20 minute phone call so that you can tell me what you believe is holding you back and I can offer you at least one, specific, action you can take that will change your results.
What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!
Right now, take a moment and affirm for yourself:
I choose my thoughts with care – that’s my self-care!