How do you start to take an action? What do you think you have to think, or feel you have to feel in order to actually do what you say you want to do?
I’ve never been able to motivate myself negatively to take a positive action. And trust me, I’ve tried.
Telling myself I’m a fat slob has never enabled me to lose weight.
Saying I have no style doesn’t help me dress better.
Thinking I’m a loser hasn’t made me a winner.
“I can’t …” has never enabled me to.
If you think that focusing on your faults, shortcomings and all the things you don’t want is the way to create the thing you do want you’re doing it backwards.
If you believe that thinking of all the reasons a man won’t want you is going to make you behave in a way that will be attractive to men you’re doing it backwards.
If you think that telling yourself (and everybody within earshot) that men don’t want a woman of your age, your weight, your intelligence, your income is going to attract the man of your dreams you’re doing it backwards.
You know how I know?
Because you’re not creating the relationship you say you want, you’re creating just the opposite of it – nights, weeks, months, years of being alone with your soul-suckingly negative beliefs.
You can’t move forward if you’re acting backwards.
If your man was in your past you would have already met.
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What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!
Right now, take a moment and affirm to yourself:
I think, feel, act and move forward!