Declare Your Independence!

Are you having fun learning about yourself? Are you seeing little quirks and behaviors that are sweet and silly and help make you who you are and that you love about yourself?

Maybe your journey of self-discovery isn’t fun at all. Do you think that the ‘little’ quirks and behaviors are really major boulders or craters in the road? Does facing these things make you feel bad about yourself, or have others made you feel bad about it?

First, I want to commend and celebrate you for doing the work! There are a lot of people who won’t even try to learn about themselves because they’re afraid of what they’ll find out. Many people are so convinced that there is something terribly wrong with them that they won’t allow themselves to plumb their inner depths. They would rather live in a little bubble where they can think of themselves as perfect, and continue to not be happy, than risk having their bubbles burst by having to see things they consider bad.

When you can accept that you don’t like something about yourself and love yourself as a whole person anyway you will achieve a freedom that is indescribably liberating! That is what can help you move through life with confidence. And that is what enables you to live a joyous life, independent from the past beliefs of lack and limitation that held you back.

Feeling confident is what can help you move forward with the things you want to do, the purpose you want to embody, the success you want to create. Not only can self-confidence – true, deep-felt confidence – help you create the loving relationship you desire, it helps you manifest all that you desire. Your confidence enables you to feel sure of your decisions, take your next actions and achieve your desired outcomes in every area of your life.

How to tell? Take an inventory of your life right now, and I bet you’ll see that the areas in which you feel you’ve achieved success are the same areas in which you feel confident of your abilities and self-worth. But understand also that you’re not confident because you achieved success, you achieved success because you felt confident – your feelings fueled your actions and your actions created your results.

I know you can do it! I also know you will feel so much better on the other side! And if you need help, I’m only a click away.

Do you desire more love in your life? You can have more love!

Do you want to have more fun dating? You can have more fun!

Don’t know where to start or how to get to the next rung of the relationship ladder? I would love to help! Please contact me at and we can schedule a free, 20 minute phone call so that you can tell me what you believe is holding you back and I can offer you at least one, specific, action you can take that will change your results.

What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!

Right now, take a moment and affirm to yourself:

I am a human being who is free to be imperfect, and lovable and loved!