So, here you are on your path to self-love and appreciation –
What are you learning about yourself that you didn’t know before? What are you appreciating about yourself that you weren’t aware of before? Are you surprised at the things you do, the things you like, the things you dislike that you’ve not consciously noticed until now?
Probably the bigger question that you’re asking is – what does any of this have to do with being with someone who will love me and create a partnership with me?
Have you ever tried to have a conversation with someone who is very much against the thing that you’re in favor of? Have you ever tried to find a common ground with someone who only wants to point out all the things you disagree on, rather than the things about which you agree? This is what it’s like to try to love someone who doesn’t love him or herself because – they are against the thing you are for!
Have you ever tried to like someone, even love someone, who, when you give them compliments they either claim you don’t really mean it or worse, that you’re actually insulting them?
People can’t actively love you when you don’t love yourself because you will never believe that their love is true. They will never be able to say the right thing, they will never be able to do enough to prove their love because deep inside you will be disagreeing with them – but you won’t be conscious of that, you’ll simply be convinced that the fault is theirs.
There are people in this world who love you. Right now. Just the way you are. You do not have to attract people who will love you – they are already there. If you want to have more love in your life you need to allow yourself to be loved. To allow yourself to be loved you must love yourself first. To love yourself first you must believe you are lovable.
Just like relationships – believing is an inside job.
Do you desire more love in your life? You can have more love!
Do you want to have more fun dating? You can have more fun!
Don’t know where to start or how to get to the next rung of the relationship ladder? I would love to help! Please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we can schedule a free, 20 minute phone call so that you can tell me what you believe is holding you back and I can offer you at least one, specific, action you can take that will change your results.
What if today is the day you take an action that propels you forward into the rest of your happy, loving, romantic life!
Right now, take a moment and affirm to yourself:
I believe all the good things others believe about me!